As I sat down with the intent to list out everything I think I am, I
quickly realized that it’s not as easy as it looks. I have never been a fan of
labels- I don’t like labeling other people, myself, my relationships, etc- but
that is what I started doing. I recognized that each label I gave myself was
accurate, however, it’s not how I want other people to view me, and it’s
specifically not how I truly view myself.
So how do I see myself? Who am I? I’m not sure if I can articulate
exactly how or who, but I’m going to try:
I am a person with very strong views and opinions on a lot of issues,
but I struggle with ways to voice them.
I am a person who isn’t very good with confrontation, or sometimes basic
conversation- I prefer writing down everything so that I can sort through my
thoughts and emotions by myself first.
I am a highly sensitive person, but I do not show my emotions easily. I
have to be poked and prodded before I give anything away.
I tread carefully when it comes to matters of the heart, but I
understand that life is short and I want to love more freely.
I am someone who values my relationships- with my family, my friends and
the person I’m dating. I always want to make sure the people in my life are
happy and I want to help in any way I can.
Because of my past, I am an empathetic person. I find myself becoming
very emotionally involved in situations that have nothing to do with me, but I
feel like I can relate to them so easily.
I am a dreamer and a believer, a writer and a creator. I do all of that
best when I’m close to the water.
I am a homebody but I love to travel and explore. I like the unknown
that waits for me in places I’ve never visited and I like the comfort of my own
bed waiting for me at home.
I am proud of how I carry myself. I still have days when the weight of
missing Alex is so heavy that it seems impossible to do anything but lay in bed
and dream of him- but I do get up. I carry my thoughts of him around with me,
and it makes me feel better.
I try my best to live in the present without dwelling on the past or
worrying about the future.
I am a free spirit who is willing to change and who understands that
life is what you make of it.
That's who I am - how I see myself. Or at least, that's all I'm willing to give up at the moment.